SUICIDE IS NO OPTION.

The truth of life is that everyone want a solution to problems as they come. Sometimes suicide could be one of those wrong options. Its not about being brave or a coward. Ofcourse no body wish to die, talking about fear, people fear death more. But when living hurt more than the fear of death, it takes the grace of God to hold back the urge. I have been in the corridor of showbiz, and I can tell you that those who spend time entertaining everyone become everyone's material for happiness, but has little time to live for self. This means that life become fashioned to people's expectation which can be so damn frustrating to know that no one cares about the real you that is locked up in loneliness. When you see or become WORRIED about seeing the cheering crowd become an empty space, only God can help you keep your sanity because talking to self is the wise man's madness. Sometimes it just seems like everything bright is fading away, a feeling of things fall apart and the centre can not hold. See the movie; why does fools fall in love, or Dream girls.

The major reason why I don’t like writing the theory of love no more could be explained below. However I was so moved by different news of suicide and murder resulting from relationship matters.  So I decided to reactivate my pro-relationship online TV Magazine tagged Love Swagger 101, which I stopped paying attention to. Everyone love one thing, to stay alive. So suicide is no option.

Love to me is real, and I have come to understand that it is an unstable feeling which needs every day working to sustain, just as one need to maintain to stay alive. It is a simple logic, how healthy and how long the feeling stays depends on the input, what is done or not..... Yea, most times it doesn’t come easy just as it can be hard to give ourselves the best physical and mental maintenance sometimes. So love can be expensive, it actually cost to get and keep, yet it is the most priceless possession of life. Haven is free, nonetheless there’s a price, and so is love. 

I once denounced being addressed as the self acclaimed love swagger master sometime back when I was beginning to see love as some sort of fluke. I understand why I felt like that after treating the subject with great insight over the years. It hurts to always be the one standing by to watch people walk away for reasons which betray what you both shared.  I have always been the last one standing, and sometimes not having the chance to say goodbye. It is a burden to be wise they say, so being reasonable is what hurt more when it’s not right but ok to let go. 

Amidst sacrifices made, people will still have the nerve to blame you for the crises, even those you could have taken bullet for if you saw it coming. Honestly love may be the same feeling but experienced differently, so sometimes we think we can define it by our standard until it begin to make no sense by another person’s understanding. Every single separation is an act of being stupid now and wise later. But trust me; those who stay longer in love are those who become more foolish as time goes. That is the acid test, and it’s a chemistry class for two.


Love is an obligation with no excuse. It starts by loving life because the world do not exist if you stop existing, so stay alive.  You can always love again, again, and again as long as you live.  Everyday is a new beginning. No matter how dark the night is, its a matter of time for morning to come. Same goes between the rain and the sun. .... www.fb.com/loveswagger101

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